“You Are in Control” is a powerful reminder for parents of kids under 12 that children thrive when loving adults lead with clarity, consistency, and calm authority. This article reframes the parenting role as the “pilot in the cockpit”—guiding, correcting, and protecting—while helping parents navigate tricky moments like tantrums, testing limits, and emotional blowups. Discover why being “in control” doesn’t mean being harsh—it means being grounded, confident, and connected.